As a female I should want things to be all about hearts & flowers, BUT I don’t. Yes it’s sweet, but please don’t waste your money on some damn carnations & expect me to melt into your hands or hang on your every word.
Maybe I’m not naive enough to understand that a man is suppose to take care of a woman & that’s his role in society to be the bread maker. Fine that’s great but I want my own money, I wanna provide for me. Who wants to depend on a man & have no control. Are we as women suppose to always be submissive ? Or can it be the other way around ?
I’m not saying I’m about to go out & blow a stack on a nigga for cleaning my house b/c shit like that shouldn’t get rewarded. Just to feel special without feeling like something is being compensated for would be the best gift ever, but no men always compensate & love is never enough. Will it ever be enough ?
Does my thinking that love isn’t a fairy tale but yet a flame that we can either keep burning or choose to put out, give me a nigga mentality ? It’s a 50/50 shot, either it works or it doesn’t. You can’t force things to remain the same & you can’t force them to change. Just let it ride out.